My weekends in New York always start the same way. I’ll sleep until seven on Saturday if I’m lucky, then kill the time until my boyfriend wakes up by tidying his apartment. As I remove the empty Tostitos packet and beer bottles that usually surround the TV (consumed by him in front of a basketball game, in the hours after I passed out following my transatlantic flight) he’ll occasionally wake up enough to mumur, “Babe, stop making so much noise”. He lives in a studio – a converted ballroom on the UES – and we’ve learnt that being in two different time zones in one room is hell on our sleeping habits.

I met Anthony last year when I was working in New York. I was living in New Jersey at the time, but when we met at Anchor Bar in SoHo, I lied about being one of the bridge and tunnel crowd and made up an address in Chelsea. I had to come clean when he tried to walk me home one night following tapas at Alta in the West Village, but amazingly our relationship survived. After a summer of late dinners at the Pearl Oyster Bar and lazy afternoons on his rooftop introducing him to Pimm’s, we decided to stay together when I had to move back to London.
Now I visit New York about once a month, just for the weekend if I can’t get time off work. I’ve become an expert at fitting everything I want to do into two days – seeing exhibitions at the Guggenheim or the Whitney, trying new restauarants or visiting old favourites (can never go wrong with the Spotted Pig or Tortilla Flats) and speedy shopping trips to stock up on Bliss Spa products at Sephora and discounted Calvin Klein underwear at Century 21. In the summer, trips revolve around Shakespeare in the Park and seeing the sculptures on the roof garden at the Met. In the winter, we spend rainy afternoons playing Scrabble in Fat Cat and eating pretzel dogs at the Rusty Knot.

I’ve even begun to make the most of my flights – on the way there I watch 3 in-flight movies in a row and on the way back on the Sunday night red eye I pop a Tylenol PM, meaning I’m wide awake and rested by the time I’m at my desk at 9.30 on Monday morning.
My carefully orchestrated schedule is all dependent on Anthony waking up in the morning though. It doesn’t always happen, no matter how long I spend hovering over him with cups of coffee, hoping to be taken to brunch downtown at the Cornelia St Café. Luckily I’m just as happy with scrambled eggs in the apartment.
Check out a list of all the places EmilyJ has mentioned on her post right here…
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